Kick - In - The - Butt
Therapy

1st: CHANGES FROM WITHIN
Change comes from you, not from your therapist nor a seminar. Take action and responsibility for your own life and YOU make it happen. Just say YES! Yes, I can, YES, I will do it now...
Don't worry about failure. The only real failure is if you stop trying!

2nd: YOU NEED HELP...
If you just can't do it alone, well, you need help. Call up your best friend, tell him/her you are just not able to take responsibility for your own misery and that you need a real "KICK-IN-THE-BUTT" to get going. The more pain, the longer it lasts, thus get a good one!

3rd: CONGRATULATIONS, YOU MADE IT...
Now, go out and eat some ice-cream or jump out of an airplane. Celebrate and put your plan into action. And, if you have a lapse, ask your friend again... hey, what are friends for!